![]() ![]() In committing to various projects, endeavors or events, the ENFJ will benefit from a simple “let me think about it” and then actually taking the time to consider the details, objectives and time commitment before responding. This will be a forced response, but a necessary one. Though the ENFJ reads best between the lines, there are times when the nit-picky details really do matter and, in the end, the boring, impersonal contracts just need to be read. In order to reach their full potential, ENFJs should:įocus on the details. As ENFJs already tend toward loneliness, the sense that no one truly knows them can foment the sense of being alone and misunderstood. If they have not developed a strong sense of self they may fail to be authentic in their relationships. Because ENFJs prioritize people and the needs of others, they may not be properly in touch with their own needs and can struggle, at times, to express them if they fear that doing so may create conflict or disunity. While ENFJs may be viewed as compassionate, they may also be seen as unfair since they are likely to prioritize the needs of the individual above the whole, and to look more readily to the exceptions than the rules. Hard logic, impersonal reasoning and data-based conclusions can be difficult and even undesirable. When making decisions, ENFJs can struggle with information that seems to lack a human element. As a result, they may later have to pull out of commitments they might have examined more carefully before jumping in, and often end up starting and stopping many things without finishing. Though they thrive on being a little overwhelmed, ENFJs can easily become over-committed because they are genuinely excited about life and all of the opportunities they see before them-they want to say “yes” as much as they can and they want to do it all. Their Intuitive nature gets the best of them and they are quite sure they have it all figured out they may not concern themselves with the necessary and important details. Passionate and headstrong, ENFJs tend to dive in head first without fully examining or investigating the endeavor in front of them, or fully considering what it will entail. Their idealism helps them to very clearly and accurately see the potential in other people and entities, and their Judging element helps them to map out the path to get there. Teaching and mentoring come as easily to them as breathing and talking, making ENFJs particularly skilled in endeavors that allow them to lead, train or educate. ![]() Their leadership skills ensure that others quickly jump on board and are excited about it. ![]() ENFJs have a solid social circle and are likely to be the ones planning events and finding opportunities to get people together. These personalities are likeable and trustworthy and, as a result, others are generally compelled to listen to and follow them. But ENFJs are charitable the motive is not often manipulation or personal gain, they simply want people to do more or better because it will benefit them or help them realize some potential. ENFJs are known for their powers of persuasion and are generally effective in getting people to do what they want them to do. As comfortable in large crowds as small groups, they like to be the center of attention and thrive on the energy of good conversation, especially with people who are as passionate as they are. ENFJs love writing, talking and telling stories, and their audiences are often equally as enthusiastic to receive what they have to say. ![]() They have a talent for making words out of ideas whether it is in the classroom or in a love letter. One of the many keys to an ENFJ’s success is the ability to communicate proficiently across diverse media. They see positive relationships as the sure path to fulfillment and are highly cooperative, promoting cohesion and even friendship within the workplace and beyond.Ĭommunication. ENFJs not only work to promote harmony and morale while deflecting potential conflicts, they are also deft in persuading and motivating others to get moving in the same direction. ![]()
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